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Ep. 324: Breaking Social Contracts, feat. Josh "Kintanon" Wentworth

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February 17, 2025 · 1:06:12 · E324

This week we're joined again by Josh "Kintanon" Wentworth from Apex MMA in Covington, Georgia! In this episode, Josh discusses "social contracts" in Jiu-Jitsu and how to break them. Social contracts are the unwritten rules we abide by, which often aren't actually rules. Social contracts can become invisible mental scripts and self-limiting habits that hold us back from our best performance in every roll.

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The Meanest Shit You've Ever Seen, feat. Andy Stolarik (requires BJJMM Premium)
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