Ep. 297: Leaving Your Gym, feat. David Figueroa-Martinez
From BJJ Mental Models
This week we're joined again by David Figueroa-Martinez! David is a black belt, instructor, and writer training out of Gracie La Mesa in California. In this episode, David discusses one of the most difficult — but sometimes essential — decisions that many grapplers will face during their journey: the decision to leave their gym.
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