I Suck At Jiu Jitsu Show

This episode is a disaster—and that’s why you’ll love it. Josh answers YOUR most unfiltered, unhinged, and uncomfortable questions he’s ever gotten: Do stripes matter? Should socks be illegal on the mat? Would he rather delete every episode of the podcast or give up all his medals? From nut cups to purple belt philosophy, nothing is safe. Chaos, hot takes, and wristlocks—welcome to your new favorite episode. [Master ANY Position in 6 Weeks](https://www.simplifyingjiujitsu.com/6) Jiu-Jitsu for Imbeciles (FREE) [BJJ Mental Models](https://www.bjjmentalmodels.com/isuck) [Kicksite FREE 30 Day Trial](https://kicksite.com/josh-mckinney/) [Datsusara](https://www.dsgear.com/) 10% OFF with Promo Code “ISUCK” Join[⁠ISAJJ PRO](https://www.simplifyingjiujitsu.com/suck) (ALL of Josh’s Courses in One Place) Join the[Gi Gazette](https://www.simplifyingjiujitsu.com/GG) [⁠Ask Questions/Suggest Topics⁠](https://www.simplifyingjiujitsu.com/ask) for the show Follow the show on[⁠ Instagram⁠](https://www.instagram.com/isuckatjiujitsushow) [⁠Check out the ISAJJ Youtube Channel⁠](https://www.youtube.com/@JoshMcKinney)

JOIN US.... For another episode of ISAJJ where host Josh McKinney goes through YOUR Hot Takes about jiu-jitsu. In today's episode we will be talking butt-scooters, bj penn, and cult like jiu-jitsu behavior! As we dig deeper into the episode we will all come to the conclusion that Josh is probably a cult leader himself. Jiu-Jitsu for Imbeciles (FREE) [BJJ Mental Models](https://www.bjjmentalmodels.com/isuck) [Kicksite FREE 30 Day Trial](https://kicksite.com/josh-mckinney/) [Datsusara](https://www.dsgear.com/) 10% OFF with Promo Code “ISUCK” Join[⁠ISAJJ PRO](https://www.simplifyingjiujitsu.com/suck) (ALL of Josh’s Courses in One Place) Join the[Gi Gazette](https://www.simplifyingjiujitsu.com/GG) [⁠Ask Questions/Suggest Topics⁠](https://www.simplifyingjiujitsu.com/ask) for the show Follow the show on[⁠ Instagram⁠](https://www.instagram.com/isuckatjiujitsushow) [⁠Check out the ISAJJ Youtube Channel⁠](https://www.youtube.com/@JoshMcKinney)

🚨 Struggling with competition anxiety in BJJ? 🚨 In this episode, I break down exactly how to overcome imposter syndrome, stay calm under pressure, and perform at your absolute best—no matter who’s standing across from you. I just competed at the IBJJF Indianapolis Open and took gold 🥇, and I’m sharing every mindset shift, warm-up trick, and pre-fight routine I used to dominate on the mats. Whether you’re a white belt entering your first tournament or a black belt chasing big wins, this is your full guide to NEVER losing to competition anxiety again. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✅ How to shut down imposter syndrome before it ruins your confidence ✅ The pre-fight breathwork routine that keeps you focused and calm ✅ Why your warm-up partner & playlist might make or break your performance ✅ What to do during long waiting periods so you don’t overthink or psych yourself out ✅ How to build the right competition mindset to stay present, fight smart, and win If you’ve ever doubted yourself before stepping on the mats, this episode is for you. Hit play, take notes, and let’s make sure you never let anxiety cost you another match.

Join Josh McKinney(@thejoshmckinney) as he sits down with Stephan Kesting ([@StephanKesting](https://studio.youtube.com/channel/UCXpu025o8edxR9b4NMbH11A))—jiu-jitsu black belt, kidney transplant survivor, and wilderness adventurer—who completed a grueling 1,000-mile canoe journey across the Canadian subarctic. In this conversation, Stephan reveals how he overcame brutal storms, near hypothermia, and countless rapids, all while balancing the demands of a transplanted kidney and an aging body. Discover the mindset, strategies, and hard-earned lessons that fueled this epic trek into one of Earth’s most remote regions and how a journey like this can so closely relate to a Jiu-Jitsu Journey. Stephan's [New Book](https://amzn.to/4hcRUPb) Jiu-Jitsu for Imbeciles (FREE) [BJJ Mental Models](https://www.bjjmentalmodels.com/isuck) [Kicksite FREE 30 Day Trial](https://kicksite.com/josh-mckinney/) [Datsusara](https://www.dsgear.com/) 10% OFF with Promo Code “ISUCK” Join[⁠ISAJJ PRO](https://www.simplifyingjiujitsu.com/suck) (ALL of Josh’s Courses in One Place) Join the[Gi Gazette](https://www.simplifyingjiujitsu.com/GG) [⁠Ask Questions/Suggest Topics⁠](https://www.simplifyingjiujitsu.com/ask) for the show Follow the show on[⁠ Instagram⁠](https://www.instagram.com/isuckatjiujitsushow) [⁠Check out the ISAJJ Youtube Channel⁠](https://www.youtube.com/@JoshMcKinney)

Today I am joined by OG Grappler Marc Ste-Marie. Marc has been on the mats for his whole life and has so many nuggets of wisdom to share!Marc is also father to one of the best female grapplers of today, Brianna Ste-Marie. Jiu-Jitsu for Imbeciles (FREE)  BJJ Mental Models  Kicksite FREE 30 Day Trial Datsusara 10% OFF with Promo Code “ISUCK” Join⁠ISAJJ PRO (ALL of Josh’s Courses in One Place) Join the Gi Gazette ⁠Ask Questions/Suggest Topics⁠ for the show Follow the show on⁠ Instagram⁠ ⁠Check out the ISAJJ Youtube Channel⁠

Join host Josh Mckinney as he goes through his Jiu-Jitsu journey to break down what every belt should be focused on. Jiu-Jitsu for Imbeciles (FREE) [BJJ Mental Models](https://www.bjjmentalmodels.com/isuck) [Kicksite FREE 30 Day Trial](https://kicksite.com/josh-mckinney/) [Datsusara](https://www.dsgear.com/) 10% OFF with Promo Code “ISUCK” Join[⁠ISAJJ PRO](https://www.simplifyingjiujitsu.com/suck) (ALL of Josh’s Courses in One Place) Join the[Gi Gazette](https://www.simplifyingjiujitsu.com/GG) [⁠Ask Questions/Suggest Topics⁠](https://www.simplifyingjiujitsu.com/ask) for the show Follow the show on[⁠ Instagram⁠](https://www.instagram.com/isuckatjiujitsushow) [⁠Check out the ISAJJ Youtube Channel⁠](https://www.youtube.com/@JoshMcKinney)

Chris Paines (@chrisvillainbjj) got tired of "how to defend everything" and recently decided to BAN Everything instead. Today I(@thejoshmckinney) get to talk to my favorite Englishman about a new training methodology that he is experimenting with that can prevent injuries, produce better grapplers, and even eliminate inner-gym conflict. Jiu-Jitsu for Imbeciles (FREE)[BJJ Mental Models](https://www.bjjmentalmodels.com/isuck) FREE Copy of[⁠The 3 Lenses⁠](https://www.simplifyingjiujitsu.com/3) Join[⁠ISAJJ PRO](https://www.simplifyingjiujitsu.com/suck) (ALL of Josh’s Courses in One Place) Join the[Gi Gazette](https://www.simplifyingjiujitsu.com/GG) [⁠Ask Questions/Suggest Topics⁠](https://www.simplifyingjiujitsu.com/ask) for the show Follow the show on[⁠ Instagram⁠](https://www.instagram.com/isuckatjiujitsushow) [⁠Check out the ISAJJ Youtube Channel⁠](https://www.youtube.com/@JoshMcKinney)

In todays episode I (@thejoshmckinney) present you with 3 simple methods to "Complete" your jiu jitsu game. Jiu-Jitsu for Imbeciles (FREE) [BJJ Mental Models](https://www.bjjmentalmodels.com/isuck) FREE Copy of[⁠The 3 Lenses⁠](https://www.simplifyingjiujitsu.com/3) Join[⁠ISAJJ PRO](https://www.simplifyingjiujitsu.com/suck)(“Master the Melt Pass”) Join the[Gi Gazette](https://www.simplifyingjiujitsu.com/GG) [⁠Ask Questions/Suggest Topics⁠](https://www.simplifyingjiujitsu.com/ask) for the show Follow the show on[⁠ Instagram⁠](https://www.instagram.com/isuckatjiujitsushow) [⁠Check out the ISAJJ Youtube Channel⁠](https://www.youtube.com/@JoshMcKinney)

I asked for offensive questions, then listeners decided to offend me instead. Jiu-Jitsu for Imbeciles (FREE) [BJJ Mental Models](https://www.bjjmentalmodels.com/isuck) FREE Copy of[⁠The 3 Lenses⁠](https://www.simplifyingjiujitsu.com/3) Join[⁠ISAJJ PRO](https://www.simplifyingjiujitsu.com/suck)(“Master the Melt Pass”) Join the[Gi Gazette](https://www.simplifyingjiujitsu.com/GG) [⁠Ask Questions/Suggest Topics⁠](https://www.simplifyingjiujitsu.com/ask) for the show Follow the show on[⁠ Instagram⁠](https://www.instagram.com/isuckatjiujitsushow) [⁠Check out the ISAJJ Youtube Channel⁠](https://www.youtube.com/@JoshMcKinney)

My dad Steve and I have been training jiu-jitsu together for almost 17 years. In that time we have seen a lot of people who "are in it for the long haul" quit. Whether from injury, life changes, or simply being as soft as butter we have seen so many people give up on their dream of "training jiu jitsu forever." Today we reveal every secret of Steve's longevity AND we offend everyone in the process. Sign up for 50% of[BJJ Mental Models](https://www.bjjmentalmodels.com/pricing) Promo code “JOSH”: FREE Copy of[⁠The 3 Lenses⁠](https://www.simplifyingjiujitsu.com/3) Join[⁠ISAJJ PRO](https://www.simplifyingjiujitsu.com/suck)(“Master the Melt Pass”) Join the[Gi Gazette](https://www.simplifyingjiujitsu.com/GG) [⁠Ask Questions/Suggest Topics⁠](https://www.simplifyingjiujitsu.com/ask) for the show Follow the show on[⁠ Instagram⁠](https://www.instagram.com/isuckatjiujitsushow) [⁠Check out the ISAJJ Youtube Channel⁠](https://www.youtube.com/@JoshMcKinney)

At just 21 years old, I took a huge leap and opened my own Jiu-Jitsu school. In this episode, I share the story behind the decision, the challenges I faced, and the lessons I learned along the way. Whether you're thinking about starting your own academy, chasing a dream, or just curious about what it takes to build something from scratch, this is for you. Let me take you behind the scenes of one of the craziest decisions of my life! [ABCs of Running a Martial Arts School](https://www.simplifyingjiujitsu.com/abcs-of-running-a-martial-arts-school) Sign up for 50% of[BJJ Mental Models](https://www.bjjmentalmodels.com/pricing) Promo code “JOSH”: FREE Copy of[⁠The 3 Lenses⁠](https://www.simplifyingjiujitsu.com/3) Join[⁠ISAJJ PRO](https://www.simplifyingjiujitsu.com/suck)(“Master the Melt Pass”) Join the[Gi Gazette](https://www.simplifyingjiujitsu.com/GG) [⁠Ask Questions/Suggest Topics⁠](https://www.simplifyingjiujitsu.com/ask) for the show Follow the show on[⁠ Instagram⁠](https://www.instagram.com/isuckatjiujitsushow) [⁠Check out the ISAJJ Youtube Channel⁠](https://www.youtube.com/@JoshMcKinney)

Ever wonder what the difference between an average and an elite jiu-jitsu mindset? Today we have the pleasure of interviewing Jeremy Brick one of the most accomplished Masters Competitors ever! Learn the secrets to always progressing and learn how important the right coach is for the right athlete! Sign up for 50% of[⁠ BJJ Mental Models⁠](https://www.bjjmentalmodels.com/pricing) Promo code “JOSH”: FREE Copy of[⁠ ⁠The 3 Lenses⁠⁠](https://www.simplifyingjiujitsu.com/3) Join[⁠ ⁠ISAJJ PRO⁠](https://www.simplifyingjiujitsu.com/suck)(“Master the Melt Pass”) Join the[⁠ Gi Gazette⁠](https://www.simplifyingjiujitsu.com/GG) [⁠⁠Ask Questions/Suggest Topics⁠⁠](https://www.simplifyingjiujitsu.com/ask) for the show Follow the show on[⁠⁠ Instagram⁠⁠](https://www.instagram.com/isuckatjiujitsushow) [⁠⁠Check out the ISAJJ Youtube Channel⁠⁠](https://www.youtube.com/@JoshMcKinney)

Sign up for 50% of[⁠⁠ BJJ Mental Models⁠⁠](https://www.bjjmentalmodels.com/pricing) Promo code “JOSH”: FREE Copy of[⁠⁠ ⁠The 3 Lenses⁠⁠⁠](https://www.simplifyingjiujitsu.com/3) Join[⁠⁠ ⁠ISAJJ PRO⁠⁠](https://www.simplifyingjiujitsu.com/suck)(“Master the Melt Pass”) Join the[⁠⁠ Gi Gazette⁠⁠](https://www.simplifyingjiujitsu.com/GG) [⁠⁠⁠Ask Questions/Suggest Topics⁠⁠⁠](https://www.simplifyingjiujitsu.com/ask) for the show Follow the show on[⁠⁠⁠ Instagram⁠⁠⁠](https://www.instagram.com/isuckatjiujitsushow) [⁠⁠⁠Check out the ISAJJ Youtube Channel⁠⁠](https://www.youtube.com/@JoshMcKinney)

Steve McKinney is a Jiu Jitsu Black belt Under Kyle Watson, a personal trainer of over 30 years, an author, and a 63 year old who still trains Jiu Jitsu regularly. Sign up for 50% of[BJJ Mental Models](https://www.bjjmentalmodels.com/pricing) Promo code “JOSH”: FREE Copy of[⁠The 3 Lenses⁠](https://www.simplifyingjiujitsu.com/3) Join[⁠ISAJJ PRO](https://www.simplifyingjiujitsu.com/suck)(“Master the Melt Pass”) Join the[Gi Gazette](https://www.simplifyingjiujitsu.com/GG) [⁠Ask Questions/Suggest Topics⁠](https://www.simplifyingjiujitsu.com/ask) for the show Follow the show on[⁠ Instagram⁠](https://www.instagram.com/isuckatjiujitsushow) [⁠Check out the ISAJJ Youtube Channel⁠](https://www.youtube.com/@JoshMcKinney)

Merry Christmas from the ISAJJ Team! This year we decided to bring on everyone's favorite crazy bjj uncle, Rob Handshy (Bionic Rob). Today Rob brought a Christmas bag with him full of Gifts, Old bjj traditions, and Wrist Locks. and he's running low on everything but wristlocks... Sign up for 50% of[BJJ Mental Models](https://www.bjjmentalmodels.com/pricing) Promo code “JOSH”: FREE Copy of[⁠The 3 Lenses⁠](https://www.simplifyingjiujitsu.com/3) Join[⁠ISAJJ PRO](https://www.simplifyingjiujitsu.com/suck)(“Master the Melt Pass”) Join the[Gi Gazette](https://www.simplifyingjiujitsu.com/GG) [⁠Ask Questions/Suggest Topics⁠](https://www.simplifyingjiujitsu.com/ask) for the show Follow the show on[⁠ Instagram⁠](https://www.instagram.com/isuckatjiujitsushow) [⁠Check out the ISAJJ Youtube Channel⁠](https://www.youtube.com/@JoshMcKinney)

"THIS. IS. EPISODE 300!" The HIT Squad has been referenced on the podcast many times but today we are going to give you the real scoop. 16 years ago someone decided to invest a lot of money into an abandon army depot with the hopes of making the first ever "MMA Super-Gym." The gym ran for 3 years before having to sell, in that time they changed tons of lives, produced multiple TUF/UFC Fighters, and shifted the course of a small Illinois town forever. So today I'm joined by my coach, former UFC Fighter, and former Hit Squad BJJ Coach, Kyle Watson(@watson_martial_arts). Kyle and I(@thejoshmckinney) share stories, critiques, and lessons learned from the 3 years that we spent at "The Greatest Gym of ALL TIME*" Sign up for 50% of[BJJ Mental Models](https://www.bjjmentalmodels.com/pricing) Promo code “JOSH”: FREE Copy of[⁠The 3 Lenses⁠](https://www.simplifyingjiujitsu.com/3) Join[⁠ISAJJ PRO](https://www.simplifyingjiujitsu.com/suck)(“Master the Melt Pass”) Join the[Gi Gazette](https://www.simplifyingjiujitsu.com/GG) [⁠Ask Questions/Suggest Topics⁠](https://www.simplifyingjiujitsu.com/ask) for the show Follow the show on[⁠ Instagram⁠](https://www.instagram.com/isuckatjiujitsushow) [⁠Check out the ISAJJ Youtube Channel⁠](https://www.youtube.com/@JoshMcKinney)

Nothing can slow down jiu-jitsu progression like a broken coccyx. Today on our thanksgiving special you can learn the super secret concept to never getting injured again! Sign up for 50% of [⁠BJJ Mental Models ⁠](https://www.bjjmentalmodels.com/black-friday-2024)Promo code “JOSH”: FREE Copy of[⁠ ⁠The 3 Lenses⁠⁠](https://www.simplifyingjiujitsu.com/3) [⁠ISAJJ BUNDLE BLACK FRIDAY DEAL⁠](https://www.simplifyingjiujitsu.com/offers/KcagBcLq/checkout) Join the[⁠ Gi Gazette⁠](https://www.simplifyingjiujitsu.com/GG) [⁠⁠Ask Questions/Suggest Topics⁠⁠](https://www.simplifyingjiujitsu.com/ask) for the show Follow the show on[⁠⁠ Instagram⁠⁠](https://www.instagram.com/isuckatjiujitsushow) [⁠⁠Check out the ISAJJ Youtube Channel⁠⁠](https://www.youtube.com/@JoshMcKinney)

In this sizzling hot takes episode, we dive into a wild mix of questions and opinions guaranteed to spark debate (and maybe a few laughs). What would you do if the guy who bullied you in high school showed up to open mat? Is No-Gi really easier—or just more practical for a street fight? Plus, we tackle the IBJJF scoring system, Masters divisions, and the ultimate mystery: Do aliens exist? Oh, and let’s not forget a quick detour into Kangaroo Jack and why that movie might’ve broken trust forever. It’s Episode #297, and nothing is off-limits! Sign up for 50% of [BJJ Mental Models](https://www.bjjmentalmodels.com/black-friday-2024)Promo code “JOSH”: FREE Copy of[⁠The 3 Lenses⁠](https://www.simplifyingjiujitsu.com/3) [ISAJJ BUNDLE BLACK FRIDAY DEAL](https://www.simplifyingjiujitsu.com/offers/KcagBcLq/checkout) Join the[Gi Gazette](https://www.simplifyingjiujitsu.com/GG) [⁠Ask Questions/Suggest Topics⁠](https://www.simplifyingjiujitsu.com/ask) for the show Follow the show on[⁠ Instagram⁠](https://www.instagram.com/isuckatjiujitsushow) [⁠Check out the ISAJJ Youtube Channel⁠](https://www.youtube.com/@JoshMcKinney)

Mike Mahaffey([@OldBastardBJJ](https://studio.youtube.com/channel/UCLnx0Qtkus2QZVmXOZzA4wQ)) has made a name for himself by helping other "old bastard" grapplers stay on the mat consistently. He recently joined the show to talk some ideas on longevity but after getting to train together I thought it would be even more fun to talk about how the right techniques and concepts make longevity possible. [Rough Hands camp (feat Josh and Mike)](https://roughhandsbjj.com/spring-camp) Sign up for 50% of[BJJ Mental Models](https://www.bjjmentalmodels.com/a/2147518662/e9h9DL7v) Promo code “JOSH”: FREE Copy of[⁠The 3 Lenses⁠](https://www.simplifyingjiujitsu.com/3) Join[⁠ISAJJ PRO](https://www.simplifyingjiujitsu.com/suck)(“Master the Melt Pass”) Join the[Gi Gazette](https://www.simplifyingjiujitsu.com/GG) [⁠Ask Questions/Suggest Topics⁠](https://www.simplifyingjiujitsu.com/ask) for the show Follow the show on[⁠ Instagram⁠](https://www.instagram.com/isuckatjiujitsushow) [⁠Check out the ISAJJ Youtube Channel⁠](https://www.youtube.com/@JoshMcKinney)

Today Wim Hof Method expert and Jiu-Jitsu Black Belt, Miles Lukas, comes back to the podcast. This time he brought a special guest with him, enter STL martial arts OG Todd Murphey. Enjoy this wide-ranging conversation where you will learn: the real meaning of martial arts, proper biting technique, and why touching the gi is holding you back! [MILES BREATHWORK Course](https://www.theartofskill.com/miles-lukas-breath-mastery-for-jiu-jitsu) Promo code MILESWOW for 20% OFF [Imposed Will x ISAJJ Gear⁠](https://imposedwill.com/collections/i-suck-at-jiu-jitsu-show) (Available Until Nov 14) Sign up for 50% of[⁠ BJJ Mental Models⁠](https://www.bjjmentalmodels.com/a/2147518662/e9h9DL7v) Promo code “JOSH”: FREE Copy of[⁠ ⁠The 3 Lenses⁠⁠](https://www.simplifyingjiujitsu.com/3) Join[⁠ ⁠ISAJJ PRO⁠](https://www.simplifyingjiujitsu.com/suck)(“Master any Position in 6 weeks”) Join the[⁠ Gi Gazette⁠](https://www.simplifyingjiujitsu.com/GG) [⁠⁠Ask Questions/Suggest Topics⁠⁠](https://www.simplifyingjiujitsu.com/ask) for the show Follow the show on[⁠⁠ Instagram⁠⁠](https://www.instagram.com/isuckatjiujitsushow) [⁠⁠Check out the ISAJJ Youtube Channel⁠⁠](https://www.youtube.com/@JoshMcKinney)