Why Saying "I Don't Know" Makes You A Better Coach
From Bernardo Faria BJJ Fanatics
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Sometimes Bernardo Faria simply tells his students "I don't know", and he thinks that makes him a better coach.
The other day a student asked him about a detail in the leg drag. The leg drag is not his game, he is a pressure passing and over-under guy, and he did not know. So he said: "Man, I don't know, but give me two or three days. I'm going to watch someone who is really good at it and get back to you." The student was totally fine.
Many instructors struggle with this because they feel they have to know everything. It is impossible. There are too many techniques and too many details inside each one, and students usually already know the move. They want the detail, or what to do when the opponent counters.
Nobody has to be the god of jiu-jitsu. Ask Bernardo a deep question about the berimbolo and he might not know, because he does not invert much. But a long time on the mat gives you concepts that still help, and makes it easy to find the best person at that move and bring back at least a ballpark answer.
Being honest also sets the right expectations. Your instructor does not know everything, even if he is the best instructor in the world. Keep the school open-minded, encourage students to study and bring new moves to the mat, and leave the ego at the door. A school with more than one instructor helps too: if one does not know, another one might.
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KEY CONCEPTS IN THIS VIDEO:
đź•’ TIMESTAMPS:
0:00 Why I Tell My Students "I Don't Know"
0:28 A Student Asked Me A Leg Drag Detail
0:47 "Give Me Two Or Three Days"
1:01 Instructors Feel They Must Know Everything
1:17 Students Want The Detail, Not The Move
1:33 Our Job Is To Keep Studying
1:57 You Don't Have To Be The God Of Jiu-Jitsu
2:17 Concepts Can Still Help Him
2:34 Subjects I Don't Master, Like Berimbolo
2:58 Why Experienced Instructors Learn Fast
3:26 Be Honest About How Deep Jiu-Jitsu Is
3:46 Let Students Bring New Moves To The Mat
4:10 Leave The Ego At The Door
4:41 Your Instructor Does Not Know Everything
5:01 Why More Than One Instructor Helps
5:21 Jiu-Jitsu For Old Guys And Fast Track BJJ
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Bernardo Faria is a 5x World Champion. Bernardo started training Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu in Juiz de Fora - MG, Brazil at the age of 14 in 2001. After receiving the Black Belt from his first instructor Ricardo Marques in 2008, He moved to Sao Paulo to join BJJ legend Fabio Gurgel and his Alliance team. After many years of training and winning many major titles, Bernardo moved to NYC in 2013 to train and teach at Marcelo Garcia Academy. In 2015 Bernardo achieved his dream of winning the IBJJF World Championship Open class title and his division, doing the double Gold and becoming the 1st in the IBJJF Ranking and also chosen as the best athlete of 2015.
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